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katdobemom
11-20-2008, 08:58 AM
RGS

Just a few years ago in November 2000, I applied to adopt from DAR&E after losing my blue girl to lymphoma. I wasn’t expecting to adopt immediately, but did the home visit anyway and waited to see if I was approved. Yep, we made it! Now the search for the perfect girl.
A few days later I learned of a little 7 month old red girl that had been dumped at Baltimore shelter. They had called DAR&E and she was picked up immediately.
Her heinous crime? Destroying a bathroom she had been continuously locked in except for potty breaks.
Athy, her foster contacted me and we had hoped for a match.
The moment I received Kayla’s picture, I knew life was about to change in the form of a tiny 50lb package with big light brown eyes and dressed in a shiny red fur coat.
Shortly after adopting Kayla it became apparent that there was something a little different about her. Sure, no two dogs are alike but just a little different.
Ok, make that a lot different.
Kayla had settled in and set out to do mass destruction in my home.
I had raised 2 male pups from 8 weeks old and an 8 week old blue female from 8 weeks old but hers was not just typical puppy behavior.
She walked in like she owned the place and we should be honored just to be in her presence. Even her walk had a prance to it. The princess had arrived.
I had never owned a red girl before, nor had I heard the rumors of their reputation.
We had fostered a handful of males over the years and she trained them all that she was the queen.
I didn’t know what it was but after learning a little more I discovered the name of it. Red Girl Syndrome.
That wonderful ability to wrap everyone and everything around her little paws.
Kayla is now 8 ½ years old and this syndrome has taken on a life of its own over the years. Her mind never stops working, or rather calculating her next move.
Another feather pillow explosion? her ability to bring me dead rabbits in the house? or her stare downs with another dog to basically let them know she is superior in every way?
Is it Dallas coming to me telling me she has taken another bone right from his mouth?
So everyone out there with a red girl knows exactly what I am talking about.
We know there will never be a dull moment, life will never be easy, nor will it ever be the same again. We must just accept it.
We know when we see another walking a red girl, we just nod, smile a little smile to ourselves and move on. We know we can commiserate with our fellow red girl owners, laugh, cry, and just sit in wonder what will happen next. But we all know we shall also never be without a red girl.

OldDrumDobes
01-06-2009, 10:49 PM
I absolutely LOVE this!!! Having a red girl who has stole my heart and made me crazy, I can completely relate!!!!
Ali Doughty
Old Drum Dobermans

dobesign
01-06-2009, 11:08 PM
But my beloved red bitch Bah does not prefer the Queen title Queens actually have to do work. Princess Bah is better. Muse the lil black birthday bitch prefers all out Dictatorship, so we have a bit of internal conflict there! But the passive household reign of Bah the Beautificent is priceless!!!

katdobemom
01-07-2009, 07:13 AM
But my beloved red bitch Bah does not prefer the Queen title Queens actually have to do work. Princess Bah is better. Muse the lil black birthday bitch prefers all out Dictatorship, so we have a bit of internal conflict there! But the passive household reign of Bah the Beautificent is priceless!!!



LOL. Kayla's workday consists of batting her long eye lashes so she will be served or prancing amongst us peasants. And she def prances.
She was like this from the day we brought her home from Athy's house at 7 months old. (Athy was her foster Mom)
I do wonder if she learned this behavior from Athy's red girls? :p
Actually, I think all red girls are born like this and think they must truly be put on a pedestal for worshipping.
She has my red male so snookered in every way and cracks the whip with him for sure. Of course, then again, the red males are a whole other story unto themselves.

Sheila
01-07-2009, 11:07 AM
Your post was priceless since I presently have TWO red girls and can really relate, esp with Wei<G> She moreso than Player has that I can do what I like and get away with it since I'm the princess attitude. Too funny and I love it also.

Sheila

katdobemom
01-07-2009, 12:01 PM
Your post was priceless since I presently have TWO red girls and can really relate, esp with Wei<G> She moreso than Player has that I can do what I like and get away with it since I'm the princess attitude. Too funny and I love it also.

Sheila



Sheila
I remember our first attempt at fostering after Kayla came into our home.
We brought home a young female and Kayla was not having any of it.
She made it loud and clear that she would be the only bitch in our home, sans her Mommy :)
From then on we brought in only males and from the minute they came in the house she made it clear they would do as she says or there would be hell to pay. She had them all snookered, and these were adult males.
When we brought Riley home after losing our Chance, she accepted him since he was just so darn sick at first he could have cared less. She welcomed him.
When we brought Romeo home she wasnt much impressed but sadly I think she knew he was gravely ill.
After he passed and we brought Dallas home, she played hard to get first hour or two but after that it was non stop play.
She actually allowed him on the bed and allowed him to snuggle with her which has been unheard of in the Banks house.
She def still keeps him in check, and he allows her to do so, so there is harmony.
If given the chance the red girls could rule the world, dontcha think:)